I just got a call and got uninvited to a Lake of the Ozarks trip that I’ve gone on for about 4 or 5 years. I had my SCI last march and all of a sudden it’s too “hard” to be around me. It would make them nervous wrecks if they had to worry about me falling or not being able to get up the steps, etc.. into the lake house. So I get to see all of my friends go without me to the funnest thing that I’ve gotten to experience in my 46 years. FmySCI!!!!!
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I dont want to go on living like this, but I’m not ready to die. I’m too young. I want to see my children grow up. I want to be a part of their lives. Everything I’ve worked for, all the years of education… all for nothing. I want to have my career back, my marriage, my sense of normalcy. I want to make love to my wife again. Im not a welfare case! I used to be somebody! Where have my friends gone? Im just watching the wheels go round and round. How can people live with themselves? They ask if there is anything they can do … but they dont really mean it. Eventually, friends and family forget about you. You become like a piece of furniture …. Does anybody really care? FMySCI!
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My C7 injury is 23 years old. Have tried everything including stem cell therapy. 2 years ago, my husband of 36 years married a young woman!! Am undergoing divorce this year. Life sucks. I am tired of the pain, weakness and pity I see in family and friends’ faces. One day I will just take all my sleeping pills and end it. I hate this life. I do not believe in God anymore either. Nothing gets better, only deteriorates more everyday. I hate what I have become…….. FMySCI.
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Of all the things I can feel, I can feel my arthritic hip and sore back. This sucks, nothing but burning below my waist, an extremely painful hip and and extremely sore back from being on bed rest for six months now because of a stupid sore which keeps going from getting better to getting worse. This pain is really pushing me to the edge, especially when it’s d*** near impossible to get a comfortable position. To top all that off, the only friends I have are the people I paid to come in and help me out. Just about nine years of being hurt and I haven’t accomplished anything. I feel like the biggest loser. FMySCI.
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I haven’t hung out with a real friend in over 5 years. None of my old friends want to hang out with me because I’m now paralyzed and have to use a wheelchair. FMySCI.
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Hi one year sci and I hate it more than anything. It has taken away my life, yes getting on with it, but this is not living. Friends do not exist anymore, pain is just that PAIN, never go anywhere, would love to sit on a beach and feel the sand and run into the water and swim… could give a million reasons why I hate SCI. A friend once said heaven is where we go when we die and hell is what we live everyday. S*** Happens. FMySCI.
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I love summer, but I no longer get invited to fun stuff with my friends anymore, like going to the waterpark or to go ride roller coasters. Maybe if I could get around without my stupid wheelchair they’d invite me to more things. FMySCI.